Happiness Isn’t the Finish Line You Were Promised.

Published about 1 month ago • 1 min read

Hi, Reader

If you’ve been asking yourself, “Why don’t I feel happy? I’ve done everything ‘right’.”—you’re not alone.

So many women going through a big transition (retirement, loss, reinvention, you name it) find themselves surprised by the emptiness that follows doing “the thing” they thought was right - and even thought would make them feel better.

The truth?

Happiness isn’t a destination.
It’s a breadcrumb.

In this week’s article, I share why chasing happiness backfires—and what to do instead. You'll learn how to use tiny moments of joy, clarity, and ease as clues to build a life that actually feels like yours.

👉 Read: Happiness Isn’t a Goal—It’s a Clue

Oh—and if this resonates?

The next Wayfinding cohort begins June 12, and early-bird pricing is open until May 31. If you’re ready for deeper clarity, confidence, and connection, this might be your next right step. Go here for more information. **link to https://www.bold-women.com/WFBG-lp **

With you on the road,

—Lynnelle

P.S. My first birthday in my new village. It was a lovely, warm, wonderful evening. Thinking back to the Lynnelle of 2022, how long she persevered, wading through the quicksand and muck of her messy middle. I knew the 2025 Lynnelle would be thankful.

P.S.S. It’s about time to think about what the 2028 Lynnelle is up to, so the 2025 Lynnelle can start laying the breadcrumbs.

P.S.S.S. What is your futureSELF asking of you?

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