Hi Reader. Let me ask you something BOLD: What lights you up now? Not what used to. -- Not what looks good on paper. I mean, the kind of spark that makes you feel alive —maybe even a little dangerous ...in a good way. 😏 If you’re struggling to answer that, you’re not broken. You're likely in the Messy Middle—that strange in-between space where your old identity doesn’t quite fit, and the next version of you hasn’t fully shown up yet. And guess what? That space is sacred. You’re waking up. You’re done living on autopilot. You’re ready to remember who you are. Here’s the truth no one tells you:You don’t find your passion. You live WITH passion. It’s not gone—it’s buried under decades of obligation, perfectionism, and being everything for everyone else. Now? It’s your turn. You don’t chase purpose—you start with glimmers; small sparks of
You follow those flickers... until they catch fire. 🔥 This is a key principle of the Wayfinding program (beta is kicking off April 17) This week, I challenge you to try this:
You don’t need a plan. You need a compass - and you already have it—it’s called your gut. ✨ Want the full story? 👉 Read the full article on Substack Resonating?And if this speaks to you—even a little? We start Wayfinding soon, and there’s still space. This isn’t a course. It’s a remembering. And remember, You’re not behind. You’re becoming. With love and fire, Lynnelle P.S. Hit reply and tell me one thing on your Glimmer List—I’d love to hear it. 💛 (Glimmers” is a term first introduced by Deb Dana, therapist and author, in her work with Polyvagal Theory.) P.S.S. I'm back in France after a blazingly fast 18 days in Texas. It's bittersweet; both the coming and the going, and I'm still processing it. Here's from my welcome home walk. |
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Hi Reader, Here's a question for you, as we Americans are gearing up for our Independence Day celebration. (Yes. I fly my flag here in France.) An American in France When is the last time you took an inventory of your life values? Not the standard "kindness, understanding, and world peace" auto-responses. But the true values that guide your life choices and actions, when no one is looking. I won't go down the red and blue road with this subject, although I encourage us all to do some...
Hey Reader, A woman emailed me last week saying she was interested in Wayfinding but that she was "not really a group person." She'd rather figure things out on her own timeline, maybe read some books, and work on herself privately. I get the resistance to joining a group, being vulnerable with strangers. I’m an introvert and I do understand. But here's what I've learned: personal transformation is hard. Doing it alone makes it exponentially harder. Why community accelerates everything: You...
Hi Reader, Yesterday, I was talking to my sister, Karen, on FaceTime, hearing about her follow-up doctor’s appointment. She was soooooo relieved (and a bit proud, I think) that she got an A+ from her doctor only two weeks after hip replacement surgery. Then this morning, I found a text from her that inspired this email. Karen told me that after she got home from the doctor’s office and running errands (she was also finally cleared to drive at that appointment-YAY!), she felt great... and then...