Is Your Cup Overflowing with "Fix Yourself" Messages?


Hi, Reader.

Over the weekend, I was sorting through my emails (all 10,000 of them – slight exaggeration, but barely) and noticed a pattern...

  • What Not to Wear Over 50
  • Total Transformation Program
  • How to Stay Relevant After 60
  • Look 10 Years Younger in 10 Days
  • Say "Yes" to Soul-Led Manifestation

And now here I am, adding to the noise in your inbox.

First thought?

"WTF am I doing joining this crazy list?"

Then I remembered why I started doing this in the first place – because when I was feeling invisible, irrelevant, and stuck, everything I found felt like it was written for someone else, trying to sell me on fighting aging or promising a quick fix rather than walking with me through this complex experience.

What You DON'T Need

It's not a lack of information keeping you stuck. There are two powerful forces at work:

  1. That critical voice telling you that you should be fighting harder to look younger – that's BIFF (the Bitch Inherited from Fear)
  2. Your subconscious programming – those invisible beliefs running behind the scenes that are so fundamental to you that you don't question them

I've written about how to empty your cup, recognize when invisible beliefs are controlling you, and how you can tell BIFF to shut the eff up in this week's article.

Read the full article here →

And if this resonates? Hit reply and let me know. I'm a real person, and I actually read and respond to my emails.

I want to hear from you,

Lynnelle

P.S. If you're feeling caught in that messy middle between what used to be and what is still unclear, I'm running the final beta of my Wayfinding program starting June 12th before the official launch in September.

Go here OR reply to this email with "WAYFINDING INFO" if you'd like to learn more about this 6-week journey with other women redefining what it means to age with power and purpose.

Hi! I'm Lynnelle!

Chief Cheerleader and Guide of the BOLD-Women Community.

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